The reason why I have such a huge focus on consultations and starting off with a send me a DM Is because I often can't produce images of my clients which are so neck breaking fantastic it freaks me out about who else's life could I transform.
Now I have a few clients who truly struggle with their self image that might not baffle me more than makes me their biggest cheerleader. I have a client lets call her Megan, who used to be model when she was younger but has reached a stage in her 40's where she refuses to look in the mirror. I mean literally I take pictures and have great before and afters but Megan refuses to look at herself.
When I met her, first of all she's a snazzy dresser and her body is insane. I mean Coca Cola bottle and goes to the gym! you know us women check each other out Im just super verbal about it. If you look good or that yellow on you is stunning. Sorry stranger but I will stop you, look you in the eye and go...... You are working that yellow!
Right back to Megan the model. I met her with the wrong makeup colour that was heavy for heer and the most confusing skincare from a local beautician who could do with some in-clinic treatments too rather than dishing it out. First of all zero shade you can get the biggest glow and best skin routine from the right Beautician.
My plan when I met Megan was to make her stop wearing makeup and look in the mirror one day. So the makeup change happened in less than a year and the compromise initially was tinted SPF. Now she doesn't even do that!
But looking in the mirror took so much longer, which had nothing to do with how amazing her skin had transformed or the glow she gives off from deep within her healthy cells. It had to do with her mindset and the years of negative self talk brought on from what she perceived from her damaged skin.
Right I've not even said the condition of her skin and at this point its irrelevant. The aim was not to get her looking like her 20's for that time has passed. But to see the beautiful bad ass she is today.
I got her to look in the mirror. It took time..... and she may not do it often. She sent me a selfie a few months back. Looking sexy, glowing and feeling her oats.
That my friends is what I'm here for. Im here for all of it. Your ups and downs, as long as you don't mind me sharing mine too. So I often find myself looking at her before and afters which mind you could be my greatest advertising point. But confidentiality keeps those photos in my vault.
Complete pride in these results and gaining a loyal badass client like this is definitely enough.
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